Flirting is an integral part of every young
lady`s life. But if dealing with those who try to win your heart is
easy, you may find it hard to win someone’s heart yourself. Girls are so
shy and often become nervous when flirting with hot confident guys. You
just look into his amazing eyes and suddenly lose your head. Things
seem to never be the same again and you can`t get control over yourself.
Those moments are unforgettably beautiful but we frequently spoil
everything and make a fake impression. If you want to stay calm with
your future partner and make a stunning impression on him, here are 12
terrible mistakes you should avoid when flirting…
1. Supposing he knows that you like him
Think the man is aware of your passion for
him simply because you`re pretty today? No, ladies, that never works
out. Make a first step to show your interest and to make him fall in
love with you and. Remember, no bees, no honey. He will never know you
like him if you don’t let him know.
2. Telling about the others who like you
Well, frankly speaking, it`s all about me.
Don`t make this mistake as when you want to tell a guy that he`s the
winner among all other guys who also like you, he may think something
like “You may count for our friendship and nothing more. You see, I
already have a “partner’s list” to choose from.”
3. Being too confident and mean
When flirting with a shy guy, don’t be too
confident and don’t try to show that you don’t have any insecurities.
When flirting with a confident guy, though, don’t be too mean. Many
girls tend to be mean with confident guys because they think it can help
them look more confident too. In fact, this type of behavior can scare
off any guy.
4. Constant laughing
Guys like to make jokes. This way, they try
to boost a woman’s mood and show that they are funny. Well, laughing at
his jokes is a must, but don`t go too far! Don’t start giggling every
time he makes a joke, especially if you don`t really find it funny,
because it`ll look unnatural and he will understand that you actually
don’t like it.
5. Drinking too much alcohol
Taking a few shots of something will not spoil your date. What`s more, it can make you feel relaxed and even more confident. However, moderation is always important. You should avoid getting drunk when flirting, as you wouldn`t like him to see you rolling on the floor and speaking up all of your thoughts.6. Being too much interested
Express your interest in what he says with
questions and attentive listening. You shouldn`t pretend that his words
are so much exciting that you are ready to become his girlfriend right
now. The art of flirting is hard to master but one of the most important
things to remember is to be yourself. After all, you can’t pretend all
the time.
7. Lying
Lying is awful and it can ruin any
relationship. Tracing whom you lied and what you lied about in order not
to be caught is a heavy burden. Moreover, it’s a bad idea to start your
relationship with a lie. If you want your crush to love you, not your
lie, it’s better tell the truth only.
8. Flirting online only
When flirting online you feel so
comfortable, brave and confident that you may start avoiding him in a
real life. If he doesn’t ask you out on a date, it doesn’t mean he is
not interested in you. He may be too shy to do it so be the first to ask
him out on a little coffee date. If he rejects you, move on. You
deserve a better boyfriend!
9. Facebook stalking him
Yes, Facebook may show you many interesting
things about your crush’s life, but don’t make it a habit to check his
account every hour in order to find out what he’s going to do tonight.
Avoid commenting too much and sending dozens of messages. There are many
better ways to attract his attention.
10. Pretending you have the same favorite band
I once said I like the same band as the guy
I was flirting with. OMG, he started to list his favorite songs and I
had to nod my had and smile. Eventually, I had to say the truth and that
was the end of our so-called date. Don`t start your relationships with
even a small lie because he may not understand it.